I want to share with you this great list jammed full of the possible early warning signs you should be aware of when your spouse is cheating.
- Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with the job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in general.
- Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.
- There is considerably less intimacy in your relationship.
- Your sex life is practically non-existent.
- Your spouse has low self-esteem.
- You notice your spouse has a sense of confusion about self.
- Your spouse has become lazy, especially around the house.
- You can’t get your spouse to communicate with you.
- Your spouse gets very defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs.
- Spouse is suddenly more attentive than usual.
- Mate is working longer hours at work.
- Your spouse is dressing nicer, looking nicer.
- You notice charges on credit card statement that don’t make sense.
- Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays.
- You find your partner has been lying to you about a variety of things.
- Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you.
- He/ she doesn’t want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.
- You can’t even get your mate to fight with you.
- You feel as if you are being avoided.
- Your partner abandons religious faith.
- Your spouse seems more secretive.
In addition, I want to add that if you get a lot of hang-up phone calls, your spouse s lover might be the one doing it. Also, if you notice a lot of gifts or apparel that you didn’t t purchase for your spouse, there might be something going on that you don t know about.
